An involved dad plays a vital role in the emotional and physical growth of children.
Parenting was never meant to be easy. I mean to be wholly and solely responsible for another individual for everything they might need for the next few years is an idea intimidating even to seasoned parents, let alone fathers. Fathers due to their unique style of handling babies and communicating with them offer a different view to the baby, as opposed to the mother. By eight weeks of age, infants can tell the difference between their mother’s and father’s interaction with them.
This dissimilarity in itself provides the
Speaking about fathers specifically and based on what I have been involved in we are uniquely different from the way we treat babies. For instance, we will tickle more, swing the baby more, wrestle with them, carry them on our shoulders or carry them as a hay sack and also become their punching bags. These actions also teach kids that physicality and aggression are not OK and they learn to exercise self-control.
Kids also learn from fathers that if they do not behave proper, their actions will have consequences and they need to do well in school to progress to good college or secure a good job. Basically the realities of the world out there are taught through fathers as they prepare themselves to step into it.
Girls and boys who grow up with a father are more familiar and secure with the curious world of men. Girls with involved, married fathers are more likely to have healthier relationships with the opposite sex because they learn from their fathers how proper men act toward women. They know which behaviors are inappropriate.
They also have a healthy familiarity with the world of men they don’t wonder how a man’s facial stubble feels or what it’s like to be hugged by strong arms. This knowledge builds emotional security and safety from the exploitation of predatory males.
Boys who have the presence of their fathers understand how to channel their physicality and aggression in constructive ways. They
As kids grow up, their interests blossom they will gradually start doing things on their own. In other words, there will be less time for fathers to be together with their kids. In such scenarios, fathers need to make more efforts to stay involved and be an active part of their children. Check out some ideas on being a good father
Dads need to actively come up with conversation topics that span across the activities they are part of and ask them about the highs and lows of the day. If they are part of a specific sport or an activity, take a keen interest in that by giving them some tricks or hacks to enhance their performance in them
This will also establish more bonding between father and children as now they have a trusted mentor who always
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