Ryan Reynolds, the Fatherhood expert!

Ryan “Deadpool” Reynolds, is eternally polite, assiduously Canadian and more than willing to share his life and how it has transformed after Fatherhood.

This especially becomes vital for Ryan , because as growing up his relationship with his own dad was less then cordial and only reconciled before the elder Reynolds died in 2015. But being a father to Inez, 2, and James, 4 has helped him learn and overcome some of the burden he was carrying all along.

He quotes:

” You get to heal some of that stuff with your kids “

Ryan who was last seen in Detective Pikachu talks on how has fatherhood helped him

“Being a father is a healing process for me. It allows you to reconcile some of the issues I maybe had or some of the issues that made my relationship with my father quite complicated. Some people pass down those issues to their own kids. I count myself as lucky and my brothers as lucky that we haven’t fallen into that pattern. My father wasn’t a terrible guy but he had his own struggles. “

He also adds on what has changed since he has become a father:

” It’s made me super present in a way I wasn’t before. I try to hold on to each moment with them. It’s drawn me to the present moment as opposed to the future and past. You see how fast it goes. I really want to enjoy as many moments with them as humanly possible. I want to be around them as much as possible and do as many things with them as possible. “

Ryan holds the concept of family really high as he says

“The kids stay with us, and the family stays together, and that is where home is. So if we are in Spain or Utah or New York, as long as we are together, we’re home.

He further states on the choice of keeping kids away from social media:

“We live as normal a life as we can live. Our kids aren’t a part of Instagram or social media. I talk about them, but I never post photos of them and neither has Blake. It’s not something we would want to be a part of. Being in public is a choice that people should be allowed to make when they’re of age. I would never want them to resent me for that. I want them to have as normal a childhood as possible. “

Reynolds and Lively are expecting baby no. 3 and announced the pregnancy when they stepped out at the New York City premiere of Pokémon: Detective Pikachu , wearing a yellow dress that hugged her belly.