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How to win child custody for fathers in 2020

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Ok Gents. You and your Mrs are finally at a stage where you gave both filed for full child custody. Some of the questions that plague your mind are

how does a father get full custody”

“how to get full custody as a father”

“can a father get full custody “

The best course is to come to an agreement for a joint custody with your wife. If that is out of the question, then its time to strtergise on how to win for full child custody.

But first, how do you assure the courts that you are a better parent and that is why you need full custody of your child? Its also vital to understand that the the courts will always decide the case in favour of the better parent.

Courts however carry the base understanding that both the parents are equally important for a optimal child growth both physically and mentally. As a result, as a father you carry a higher burden of proof to show the courts that you are a better parent. But

How to be a better father”

It comes down to showing the courts your willingness to do everything that is beneficial for the child, even if it involves participation of the mother. In other words being open and accepting to the visitation of the child’s mother, especially if she is a good mother.

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The courts also look for healthy and beneficial lifestyle for kids. This includes:

  • Sleeping habits
  • Healthy eating schedules
  • Sports and physical well being activities
  • Intellectual grooming

Child custody for fathers or getting full custody for the child involves walking a tight rope to assure the courts that you are a better parent. Here are the things you need to keep in mind:

1. For fathers to get full custody of a child, its vital to be open to courts in revealing the inside of your household. This involves voluntarily applying for in-home custody evaluation to assure the courts you have nothing to hide. This can especially be helpful, if the mother is just trying to prove you unfit as a father or a parent.

2. Its vital to save some money when you are about to begin a court battle as a father trying to get full custody of his child. In fact, it will be wise to start saving much earlier if you see things headed that way. Lord knows, lawyers are expensive and the good ones are exorbitant. It will make sense to maintain a separate deposit just for the oncoming custody battle.

3. Its vital for fathers to keep their emotions under check, especially in bitter battles where the other side is trying their best to prove us unfit. The court will always take note of the side that loses their temper and as such weaken their case as it reflects on their parenting method as well.

4. We as fathers are blessed to have more earning power then the mothers. While showing off financial prowess might not be a good move. However, to position the same to the courts from a financial angle which furthers the secure future of the child, always gets a nod from the court.

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5. Its vital for fathers to also provide better parent references to get a full custody of their child. This involves asking friends and relatives you can trust to share affidavits to the court that you as a father are a great parent. This will add weight to your case when the judges see that a small community is vouching for you as a better parent and a good father.

6. Be present in abundance around your child. This involves being an involved father who is there to pick the child from school or drop him or her off at the soccer game. The key is to get the teachers and the coaches notice that you are always there. This also exemplifies that you are a responsible parent and you have balanced your work and family life perfectly.

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7. To win custody as a father, its also vital to save up all the documentation you can if you feel your partner has a history of physical abuse. This can involve recording instances or anger issues with the child or even in some cases with you. You can present to the court such interactions or other evidences that shows ill behavior of your partner which potentially can be unsafe for your child.

8. Do not miss any scheduled date with your child. In any such instances can be ballooned in front of the court and can be furthered into showing you as an unfit father. For a father to win custody of his child, he cannot afford to shown in poor light. So always plan in advance and manage your work accordingly.

9. For fathers to win custody of their child, its vital to stay in control all the time and especially when you are with your child. This also means staying away from alcohol and drugs. Not only will this help you make sane decisions, it will always promote the theory that you are a responsible father and keep the kids away from such ill habits. On the contrary promote sports and physical exercise at home and motivate your child for the same. All these are brownie points for your case as a father for child custody.

10. Best thing fathers can do for their child is give mediation a chance, especially when you see that you do not see a clear chance to win and your partner is a good mother. This also works out best for fathers as statistically mothers win eight out of ten times in such battles.

But what does the stats say about fathers getting child custody?

Source : Statista

In 2018, there were about 16.4 million children living with a single mother in the United States, and about 3.25 million children living with a single father. The number of children living with a single mother is down from its peak in 2012, and the number of children living with a single father is down from its peak in 2005.

Below is a ethnicity and sex wise split of who gets child custody more :

Source : National center for family and marriage research

It also reported by PEW, that single father families are better of financially then single mother families by an average of 35 percent.

Also, the proportion of children living in poverty is about twice as high among those living with single mothers as those living with single fathers. 

Single fathers are less likely to be living in poverty than single mothers, they are however still more likely to be living in poverty than married parents: 8.4% of related children in married families were in poverty in 2016, compared to 19.9% of related children in single-father families, according to this Census report

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